Hypothesis: The process of moving directly correlates with the process of reproducing.
Moving is hard. Making friends is hard. Finding community takes time. It also takes some effort.
If you’re feeling lonely, overlooked, or forgotten, you have to make an effort. Everyone is generally self-centered. We’re all concerned about our lives, our issues, and our little worlds. Sometimes, it takes a little effort for others to notice we exist.
What I’m looking for now are skilled people I can win over with my charming personality and adorable children, bring into the fold, then utilize for their skills. Does that sound a bit selfish? Let’s just pretend they end up adoring me as well, so it’s a win-win.
In my current stage of life, I need something I can pass along quickly that won’t feel intrusive or stalkerish.